doodlebug: Would you do that?

May 22, 2010

Would you do that?

I've been thinking a little about my post ''You'd risk it all-no matter what may come, when you love someone.'' Yes, I still think that ''Anything'' is inportant in a relationship but would you do everything and anything at home because your boyfriend/husband says so? I believe in split the responsibility in the home. If you cook, he can do the dishes. If you wash all your clothes and then iron them he can clean the house/apartment. But of course, you will also clean the house/apartment together to make it fair. You shouldn't just talk to your significant other like you are his or hers boss. Just make it fair and hopefully there will be no fights.

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THE END IN THE BEGINNING

People say you only live once, but people are as wrong about that as they are about everything. In the darkest moments before dawn a woman returns to her bed. What life is she leading? Is it the same life the woman was leading an hour ago? a day ago? a year ago? Who is this man? Do they lead separate lives or is it a single life shared? A storm approaches. It is still over the horizon, but there is lightning in the air. Are either of them aware of the gathering turbulance? Can they feel the crackle of electricity in the wind, or are they aware of only the power that they generate between themselves? The first hint of this storm is not a thunderclap..it is a knock.

When you love someone, you open yourself up to suffering. That's the sad truth. Maybe they'll break your heart, maybe you'll break their heart and never be able to look at yourself in the same way. Those are the risks. The thought of losing so much control over personal happiness is unbearable. That's the burden. Like wings, they have weight, we feel that weight on our backs, but they are a burden that lifts us. Burdens which allow us to fly.